Emily and Matt

I quickly learned that asking her dad for her hand in marriage is no easy task. We’ve all seen the movies, but I think it’s a little more nerve racking than they make it out to be. I have no idea why either. Warren is a great guy and I know he likes me. Plus, I already went through it once when I asked them if I could date (well, court actually) their daughter, and that was before I knew them for 3 years. With enough rehearsel in the car ride there to annoy myself, I stepped out of the car and took a deep breath. I felt prepared as I had made sure to brush my teeth, shave, and all that other stuff the Internet had suggested I do. I also called him earlier in the day to ask if I could stop by after work so that he’d have time to prepare himself for what was coming.

After asking both parents to sit down, I explained my feelings for Emily and asked for her hand in marriage. After no response for about 20 seconds he began to explain his position and feelings, his love for his daughter, and asked me a few questions. Emily almost died when born, I think she only weighed around 4 lbs, and that is part of the reason she’s extra special to him. Eventually they both said they liked me and had no problem with me marrying their daughter. Now I just pray that I wont be as nervous when I ask her, even though I’ll probably be shaking and sweating up a storm. There’s a reason our teammates call us “Mom and Dad,” we work very well together and compliment each other very well. I know we will have one of the best marriages a person could ask for.